I spent decades in the script.

Coaching wasn’t my first career. Like many of the people I work with, I spent nearly three decades navigating the corporate world, from the high-velocity chaos of startups to the complex leadership demands of Fortune 50 technology giants.

I attained the level of success my younger self only dreamed of ... but I was performing a role. On the inside, the friction was grinding. I was wildly unfulfilled, facing the end of a long-term marriage, and navigating a crisis of spirit. I was a high-performer on paper, but I was living a scripted life.

Then came the crossing.

My own crossing began when I stopped trying to out-maneuver my problems and started looking at the truth of my Being. Through deep ontological intervention, my eyes were opened to a completely new, empowered way of living.

It wasn’t just a change in perspective; it was a structural transformation.

Within two years, the dissonance was gone. I moved into a challenging new role, built an exquisitely expansive partnership with my life partner, and unlocked a grounded connection to my inner self. I stopped performing and started leading from my center.